What Do Women Bring To The Table?
Men love to ask, ‘What do women bring to the table?’
As if the table existed before we walked in.
As if they weren’t built inside us, fed from our bodies, and kept alive by our love.
But yeah, let’s talk about what women “bring to the table”, and then let’s see what cards your playing with, boys.
Women are the frequency that sets the tone for all of creation that will come from her.
We decide what table gets built, what goes on it, who sits at it, and what we’re celebrating.
Our frequency declares what matters most to our heart and Soul, and our declarations of what matters to us are the directions to build life.
The word "matter" originates from the Latin word "materia", which meant "wood" or "material". "Materia" itself is derived from the Latin word "mater", meaning "mother".
The concept of "matter" as something from which other things are created or made is linked to the idea of a mother as the origin of life and things. (Source)
What our language and nature show us, is that matter is from mother, because the mother is the source of life.
So what mattered to Mother?
LOVE.
And everything she created was from LOVE and reflects the truth that LOVE is needed to live. Not just survive, but literally have the will to live.
In 1945, the émigré psychoanalyst René Spitz published a landmark article in which he suggested that babies cared for in institutions commonly suffered from a condition called ‘hospitalism’ and failed to thrive.1
Spitz reported that babies he observed in a foundling hospital became withdrawn, lost weight, suffered from severe developmental decline and many of them died.
The causes of this, according to Spitz, were to be found in the fact that the babies were deprived of ‘maternal care, maternal stimulation, and maternal love’.2
He subsequently distilled his views on the catastrophic consequences of institutional care of babies in a harrowing short film released in 1947, entitled Grief: A Peril in Infancy. Spitz was to become one of the principal spokespersons of the dangers of maternal separation in the United States in the post-war period.3
His observations also influenced the British psychoanalyst John Bowlby, who in 1951, having been commissioned by the World Health Organisation to explore the plight of homeless children, published his influential report on Maternal Care and Mental Health. In it he formulated his theory of maternal deprivation, suggesting that young children needed continuous and responsive mothering or faced the risk of long-term damage. (Source)
John Bowlby laid the foundation for what we understand now as “secure attachment”.
Bowlby, through his work during World War II with children separated from their parents and who were institutionalized, found specific behavioral patterns and emotional responses that were common in all of them: a strong need to establish and maintain proximity with their primary caregivers, especially in situations of stress or danger.
He observed that children sought physical contact, security and comfort from their attachment figures to soothe their distress and restore their sense of security, and that THE QUALITY of the attachment relationship between the child and his or her primary caregiver had a significant impact on emotional development and on the way children interacted with the world.
In other words: without mom’s love, we die.
It’s not metaphorical—it’s measurable.
Clinical.
Brutal.
Proven.
Then we have all the human children becoming one with their mother through micro chimerism. This exchange allows the baby’s cells to provide their mother with the healing energy she needs to create the best environment for the baby to grow in.
Even in the womb we are seeing that Mother is for life, and life is for Mother.
But what happens when love isn’t at the center?
When systems are built without the mother in mind, without the frequency of care?
Men love to talk about all the things they’ve built, invented, and accomplished, as if they are bragging points of leadership:
Filthy cities that cover Mother Earth and block her healing frequencies
Wars “fought for us” that only created generational trauma
Schools that teach obedience, not brilliance
A death-care system profiting off our pain
Governments that control minds and violate bodies
Religions that strip the sacred from women and earth
Food, medicine, and culture built to keep us dumbed down, co-dependent, and disempowered
OOOOOOO, AHHHHH, look at all you’ve made you big, bad, Ego!
And yes—many women participate in the Ego’s creations and carry the same frequency of dominance, manipulation, and detachment—because they were raised inside the same broken systems built to destroy them.
Truth is it doesn’t matter what these mother fucken men build, invent, or do.
It doesn’t matter that women are deceived into supporting it as well.
When it’s lacking love, the results are always death.
Humanity cannot escape the heart of the Mother, and she shows Herself at every turn. Men love to try to replace her, but all they can really do is make a shitty copy that eventually malfunctions and causes damage.
Let’s take something so simple as giving birth a feed a child from her breast. According to this research paper, the effects of longterm breastfeeding past infancy are more than it being the best nutrition and immune booster ever! The greatest impact is in the child’s emotional and cognitive well-being.
The warmth and closeness of her body, eye gazing, the cascade of “love” hormones that flood their bodies and create an intimate bond… these are the building blocks of boys who have been loved and nourished well, who feel securely attached to their life giver and understand loving reciprocation, and who will then grow into men who care for their mothers, sisters, and mother earth.
If this is public medical knowledge backed by research, as well as the 1944 experiment, tell me:
WHY THE FUCK WOMEN ARE STILL WORKING WHILE BEING PREGNANT AND RAISING CHILDREN?
Why aren’t abandoned children a top priority to find a loving home for?
Why aren’t we making sure this bond between a mother and child is preserved at all costs?
Why are women pushed to use formula, go back to work sooner, get the baby on your schedule, sleep separately?
The evidence is clear that a lack of the mother’s love causes death, and the consistent presence of it brings life - only insane and psychotic societies would put women in a place to be separated from their children, and then leave both of them to fend for themselves.
But because we have been separated from our mothers, and because society refuses to acknowledge the importance of mothers and Mother Earth, we are all lacking the connection and guidance we need, and now her children are a reflection of the diseased connection.
These men who brag about what they’ve built, invented, and accomplished have never learned the value of how to do it with love; they have only understood how to take from a woman, be served by a woman, and feel entitled to her love. And we wonder why our systems devour us!!!
How poetic of Goddess to be in the form of a woman: gorgeous, sensitive, smart, wise, talented, strong, soft, light, dark, mysterious… all the things that attract us to her and make us desire more of her.
And how ironic of Her to make men in her image-with their own ability to create and make beauty with their power.
And even more ironic to put them in bodies that are physically stronger and give them choice to use their power to love her, or harm her-just like she could have chosen to love them as a child, or devour them.
What men didn’t expect was the quality and length of his life depended on how well he treated her; and the quality and length of a woman’s life depends on how she teaches her children to love.
CHECKMATE, BITCHES!
Love isn’t taught in a school, religion, or book.
It’s lived in relationship.
It’s shown in the conscious choices that nurture life.
And it’s felt in our nervous system that feels safe to soften and open up.
How I see this spiritual war playing out is that the dark forces, principalities, governmental leaders, and rulers of this dark age are perfectly aware that God is a woman, that She is the Source of all life.
This is why all systems are made to feed off of her and her children, keeping them alive enough to prop themselves up on their backs, but damaged enough to stay small, distracted, stupid, and in constant repair.
They tell us they care about us, they make all these complex systems and rules to live in to get their “care”, but at the end of the mother fucken day, we are energetic loosh.
Sounds a lot like how men are living off of us women right now.
Marry us, have babies, take care of them too, run the house, make my food, be available for sex, but don’t ask me do to anything more than make money off the energy you give me.
Grown ass hobosexuals!
Fkn neanderthals unable to care about anyone but their silly little ego games of chasing power, dominating resources, and building a bunch of shit we didn’t ask for, don’t need, and quite frankly would like to burn to the mother fucken ground!
And when we try to bring these issues up, we’re met with, “Well women lie, cheat, manipulate, etc. too!”
No shit! She’s raised in the same mother fucken toxic environment men made for her to grow in, and now she’s acting like the gold digging, free loading, hobosexual men are!
And men have the AUDACITY to be upset with women acting like them?
Shit, son, if you don’t like what you’re getting, them maybe sit down and take some lessons from the OG creators themselves!
Goddess lives in us and has wired us to be able to FEEL who She is from the inside out.
She is me
She is you
She is everything
And we all respond to the frequency of LOVE
So whether the Egos of men (and women) choose to submit to Her leadership of love inside or not, she’s got kill switches built inside each of us to self-destructed when we choose to reject love.
Because rejecting love is rejecting God
And rejecting God is rejecting life
And rejecting life means you choose death
And when your frail life has ended, when she has loved you to death, she will still live on in the structures of love.
Even if all the light of all the women were to be snuffed out, and there was only darkness left on the earth and in the minds of men, the light of her truth would still stand because they would all eventually die from not being able to reproduce.
Some ignorant fool will interject here: but we have artificial wombs now, we don’t need you.
Good luck, little buddy.
Let’s see how far those babies live without a mother to connect to.
We already saw how those experiments went, so rage on with your ignorant self.
Yeshua understood the Spirit of the laws because he was connected to the Holy Spirit. He said the only two laws are to love god, and love your neighbor as yourself.
And when he was pushed by the religious leaders to clarify who “my neighbor” was, he tells the story of a man attacked by robbers, left for dead. A priest and a Levite pass by without helping. A Samaritan, however, stops, tends to the man's wounds, provides transportation, and pays for his care at an inn.
The significance of using a Samaratin-what the Jews considered half breeds and heretics- in contrast to the priests and Levites who prided themselves on being “God’s chosen”, is intentional.
It’s not the words of love, or acknowledgment of a higher power, or dissecting laws, or being a spiritual leader that makes someone loving…
It is how they represent the love of God when they see someone in need of love.
So what do women bring to the table, you ask?
THE FREQUENCY OF LOVE
THE ONLY LAW WE ARE TO LIVE BY
THE ONLY TONE THAT TRULY CREATES LIFE
Here’s what it looks like to walk be the frequency of love and set the tone for what you create:
Trusting your gut even when everyone around you says you’re crazy.
Saying yes without needing permission, and no without guilt.
Resting when your body says stop, feeding when its hungry, hold yourself softly.
Protecting you and your loved ones from systems that don’t serve them, even when it means going against the grain.
Honoring your rhythm of life, instead of men’s expectations to be more like men
Building what you desire, instead of waiting for someone to give it to you.
But to walk that way, you have to hear your instructions. Not from a guru, not from a book, not from the culture—but directly from Source.
That’s the reconnection I’m offering.
If you’re ready to be reintroduced to the Goddess of Love—not the one distorted by religion, pain, or patriarchy, but the living, breathing presence that speaks through your body—come learn with me.
Body language is a practical, tangible communication system that connects you directly to Source. It reveals how life has shaped you, how close you are to the frequency of love, and how to come back into alignment with what you’re truly here for.
She’s already been to your darkest places—because she never left you there alone.
Come exactly as you are.
Let’s remember how to love Her back—through you.
